Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s rekindled love story, once a tabloid dream, appears to be on the rocks.

It’s been a month without any public appearances forget about their PDA-filled outings. The Hollywood A-listers are now living separately, having put their shared mansion on the market, and reportedly seeking time alone, even spending holidays apart. Reports now claim that JLo’s mama Guadalupe Rodríguez, isn’t holding back. She allegedly urged her daughter to take a big step, which includes leaving Ben behind.

“Jennifer’s mom told her, ‘Cut your losses and move
on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess,’” a
source told the Daily Mail. Stressing that her mother
believes the singer wasted years thinking of Ben as
her ‘ knight in shining armour ,’ the source continued,
“He was not the person she built him up to be. It has

taken too much of a toll on her, causing her to lose
sight of who she is and what she stands for.”

The source further claimed that not only her mother
but the pop star herself has now come to terms with
the idea that Ben doesn’t deserve her, and her sisters
agree. The family believes that the All I Have singer
has become so caught up in things that “she isn’t
seeing it for what it is now.” They want her to file for
divorce first and focus on her life—her kids and
career.